Your wedding invitations are the first glimpse your guests will have into the celebration of your love, making the wording you choose extremely important. Whether you come from a traditional background or your family dynamics are a bit unconventional, finding the right verbiage for your invites can be both exciting and challenging.
In this guide, we are going to explore both traditional and modern invitation wording, and provide solutions for the tricker family structures and dynamics.
So, pour yourself a glass of wine and let’s take a look at some of your options!
Traditional Invitation Wording:
For Parents Hosting:
Mr. and Mrs. [Father’s Full Name] request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter [Bride’s Full Name] to [Groom’s Full Name], son of [Groom’s Parents’ Full Names].
For Divorced Parents Collaborating:
Together with their families, [Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] request the honor of your presence at their wedding.
For One Set of Parents Hosting:
Mr. and Mrs. [Hosting Parents’ Full Names] invite you to celebrate the marriage of their daughter [Bride’s Full Name] to [Groom’s Full Name], son of [Groom’s Parents’ Full Names].
Modern Invitation Wording:
Bride and Groom Hosting:
[Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] invite you to join them in celebrating their union.
Parental Support Acknowledgment:
With love and joy, [Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] invite you to witness their commitment, supported by the families of [Bride’s Parents’ Names] and [Groom’s Parents’ Names].
Or
[Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] together with their parents/families, invite you to join them in the celebration of their wedding.
Creative Expression:
Join us for the wedding of [Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] as they say ‘I do’ and embark on a lifetime of love and adventure.
Unique Family Dynamics:
Divorced Parents:
[Bride’s Full Name], daughter of [Mother’s Full Name] and [Father’s Full Name], and [Groom’s Full Name], son of [Mother’s Full Name] and [Father’s Full Name], request your presence at their wedding.
No Parents Hosting:
Surrounded by the love of friends and family, [Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] invite you to celebrate their union.
Stepparent Inclusion:
Join us as [Bride’s Full Name] and [Groom’s Full Name] join their lives in marriage, with gratitude to [Mother’s Full Name] and [Stepfather’s Full Name], and [Father’s Full Name] and [Stepmother’s Full Name].
Tips for Navigating Family Dynamics:
Clear Communication:
Discuss the wording with all parties involved to ensure everyone feels comfortable and acknowledged.
Consider Separate Invitations:
In cases of divorced parents, consider separate invitations to each set of parents, acknowledging their individual roles.
Create Custom Wording:
If your family dynamic doesn’t fit traditional templates, don’t hesitate to create custom wording that reflects your unique situation.
Online RSVPs for Flexibility:
Opt for online RSVPs to easily accommodate any last-minute changes or additions due to evolving family dynamics.
Your wedding invitation is a reflection of your love story, and shouldn’t be seen as a daunting or stressful task. Whether you choose a traditional or modern approach, the key is to make sure the wording is a genuine representation of your relationship and the support you have from your loved ones. In doing so, you are setting the tone for the celebration ahead.
Remember, the Bella Vie Team is here for you for every need you have, including those you haven’t thought of yet!
Helping you word your invitations is just one of the many things we can do for you. (Plot twist: We can also design and make them.)
Always, always feel free to reach out to us for tips and advice, no strings attached! We will be happy to point you in the right direction.
Until next time,
Ciao, Bellas!
